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Monday, March 19, 2007

was readin thru my cousin's blog jus now...n was shocked by 1 of her entry....
she was writin abt an arguement she had with her dad (my uncle), and wat shock me was not wat she said to my uncle, but instead, wat my uncle said to her...he'd told her...he was her boss, and she's an employee of him...reason being -- he's been payin for her expenses n studies all this while...and i was like "hello?dun u hav some common sense of an adult (if not a dad)?" how can he say such things to his own daughter (even if he's damn mad)???how wld a teenager think---"so???u dun treat me as ur daughter at all???is tt's all bet us?jus a boss n employee relationship???"

seriously, i noe my uncle dun mean wat he say...n his own interpretation of his "boss" speech will b different as compare to my cousin...he dun wan my cousin to waste her time over some things which he think are unimportant when compared to studies...but i still cant help but feel upset for my cousin...she's not a bad gal...she's smart, she's intelligent, n her eq is high (when facin outsiders)...ok, she's rebellious, she's playful, but which teenager dun??do her rebellion and playfulness deserve her to b cryin her way home at nite and feels so "unwanted" at home???

most of us hav thot tt my cousin think too much sometimes and is occasionally over-pessimistic...but i believe tt her character had links with the treatment she received at home as well...which gal will be bubbly when most comments abt her from her parents are negative???

dear parents/parents-to-be,
even when u are super extremely angry with ur kids....pls do not say things out of impulse...if adults can get hurt over act of impulse, wat makes u think tt kids wun get hurt???pls put urself in ur kids shoes n dun always think tt wat u think is gd is the best for them...ya they may b kids n may hav not been expose to the world as much as u, but they can think as well....jus provide them with the guidance they need along their growin up process, and not to manipulate the route that they shd take...
i've heard a sayin from dunno where b4...this always very easy for parents to forget the hurt tt their kids had done to them, but it'll take a lifetime for a child to forgive his/her parents for the hurt tt they've caused...so parents, dun make such a mistake which u noe will hurt ur child and will take him a lifetime to forgive and forget....

~oInKs OiNkS~_{5:17 PM}